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Locktober 2019 - Day 14

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As I said yesterday tonight is a pamper night, so enjoy that, but here’s something for you to think about at the same time…

So… here’s a much bigger challenge for those of you brave enough… (and if you’re not you can just play with the idea of teasing about it or even claiming you did it…)

Rather than just teasing about telling a friend, I want you to think about really doing it.

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You obviously need to be cautious with this, you know your friends best. But if you have a girlfriend who might just be open to hearing about the fact you’re into this, and trust to keep it a secret, I challenge you to bring it up.

How? Well I think dropping ‘Locktober’ into the mix might be the easiest way actually.

There’s a lot of acceptance of things like National ‘Insert thing here’ Day or month. Movember’s become a big fund raising thing with moustaches. Well, Locktober can be a thing too!

Let me emphasise the trust thing though. If you can’t risk anyone finding out about this you should just keep it private unless you complete trust that person to keep your confidence.

What’s good about using Locktober as your way into a conversation is it’s something outside of you, that you can say you’re ‘trying’. You don’t have to go into a conversation saying ‘hey we love chastity play, have you tried it?’

How might it go…

So, hubby and I have been trying this thing called Locktober, have you heard of it?

Locktober? No, what’s that?

Well it’s kinda kinky, you won’t freak out? I thought you’d enjoy hearing about it though.

Oh hell, now you HAVE to tell me!

Promise you’ll keep it secret, just between us? Not even your hubby?

Of course, you know me now TELL ME…

Okay, oh god I can’t believe I’m going to tell you this…Basically, he’s teased all month, but not allowed to, you know, cum… so he’s crazy horny, it’s so much fun!

No waaaay! OMG All month?! wow

You’re not freaking out?

No I love it, tell me more!!!

Well that’s how I hope it’d go anyway, I’m trying it this weekend with a close friend I’ve wanted to tell for ages.

So at any point, if they look negative about it, just stop! It really is that simple. You’re confessing that you’re trying something that has come as an idea from others, it’s very different from saying ‘this is what we’re into’. it’s not something you’re doing forever, it’s just something you’re trying out for a laugh as far as they are concerned.

At this point you can pass it off as ‘I saw it and thought it might be a bit of fun’ and leave it at that. You’re kinkier than them, and that’s okay.

Notice I haven’t mentioned at all his cock is in a cage yet. SAVE THAT until you are sure they like the idea and are positive about it. REALLY SURE.

And if you’re happy they are…

Do you want to know the hottest bit?

Hell yes!

I lock his cock up in a cage

No WAY!

A tight little cage that only I have the key to. He can’t get to his cock without me letting him, it’s awesome!

I’m dying here! This is the greatest thing you’ve ever told me!

He won’t believe I’ve told you, hold on, I should let him know, he’ll freak out, it’ll be so funny…

And really, do that. Let him know. Right as you’re telling her if you can. It’ll be such a crazy feeling for him.

And yes, don’t get too carried away, remember this is new to them. Answer questions they have if you’re comfortable doing it. Make them repeat the promise not to tell.

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Then be honest about it if you want to, about how it’s brought greater intimacy, how much fun it’s been, revitalising sex lives, etc. It really is a great thing, just, surprising – heck, we were surprised! Tell them a bit about how you started off perhaps, just, less is better, make sure they want to know, answering questions THEY ask is your best bet.

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And if they are very curious, if you simply get them to google ‘locktober tumblr’ they’l find my introductory locktober post last year as the first result! But don’t tell them that unless they are truly positive and want to find out more, it’ll be a baptism of fire going onto tumblr…

So, there you go, dare issued! Be smart with it but if you trust them, it’d be great to have a friend who knows I think. I’m excited, and scared, but mostly excited!

And just imagine if her reaction was…

You’re doing Locktober TOO?!

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Thanks to @grumpy2017 who I nicked the wonderful captions above from.

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